So much of who we are is reinforced or established by others.
If The Other places positive attributes on us, it’s all good. I for once was seldom favorably appraised growing up to the point in which it’s hard for me to believe most compliments.

For this reason I try to self assess, but that is not always easy as the lack of praising in the past still pours down and in general I end up with negative attitudes about myself.

Interesting how we all influence one another. Like John Donne said, no man is an island.

Thank you for your writing. Even when I never met you, intelligence transpires through your words.
Pablo