Or is it their lack of drive?

The fact they themselves don’t know what they want in life?

The fact they spend their time between Xbox and x videos (full disclaimer, I don’t do video games. I wish I would. I bet they are the story telling platform of the future).

X videos? Just write a plot with half a twist! Ok, I know, not everyone can write Belle de Jour.

Oh my gosh, I digress a lot, I’m getting old (may be another reason why I cannot find more romantic partners! Not the age part. I digress a lot and get distracted by butterflies!!!)