Hi Tom!
I think acceptance starts by accepting ourselves.

Then, to try to know what is we truly want.

At that point I think we stop craving for others (who we transform into objects of our desire) acceptance. Probably at that point we stop craving wanting others so they want us to feel ourselves whole (if that makes sense).

But to make a long story short, I think it goes with being content with who we are and loving ourselves.

Thank you as always for reading and stopping by, Tom!
Pablo